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Perfect Weakness

“And he said unto me, My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness.”
2 Corinthians 12:9a

“I am my own worst critic.” How many of us have made that declaration?

And yet, it can be so true. We begin an endeavor with a certain picture in our minds of how it should work, but when it doesn’t, we think we have failed. We feel like we haven’t done that good a job.

Recently, I struggled with this feeling when delivering a sermon. And before I could get into a total pity-party about it, I felt what I believe to be a nudging from the Holy Spirit, reminding me, it’s not about me. What if the way I delivered that sermon was the exact way someone who was struggling needed to hear the message? What if, where I felt weak, was the place God wanted to use during that moment?

People really do not like to talk about personal weaknesses.

Why? Simply put, because it makes them feel imperfect. As if there is some sort of lack or deficiency.

Society celebrates strength. The world celebrates strength. History celebrates strength.

Look around our world, and you won’t have to go far to see signs of strength and ingenuity everywhere. Actually, I am more impressed by the works of our forefathers than some of the modern-day advances. They, because they started, engineered, and built societies, systems, and marvels without the history, know-how, and help of the things we heavily rely on today.

They were the pioneers of inventions that set the course for many others to follow. Yet, with them and the advances of today, geniuses, strongmen, and influencers, what many don’t recognize is that there is still a lack. The imperfect cannot dole out the perfect.

And while we appreciate their efforts and work done, if they become a source of fixation for us, as if they are a measuring rod of success, know that they are a fallible source to compare and lean upon.

So, what do we do when we need that true measuring rod? Where do we lean in the hard times? When we can’t figure out the next step, who shows us the way? When we feel like we are at the end of our rope, with no more strength to continue, then where do we turn? Where does our help come from?

The psalmist very plainly reminds us, “My help cometh from the Lord, which made heaven and earth,” (Psalm 121:2). A truth the apostle Paul had come to know when God spoke to him in his time of hardship, saying, “My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness,” (2 Corinthians 12:9).

For all of his advances, works, missionary journeys, and more, that great apostle had come to know that he could never lean on his own strength, human intellect, and inventiveness. In fact, he had matured significantly in his faith. As he plainly stated in Philippians 3:8, the worthlessness of all his successes was overshadowed by the “excellency of the knowledge of Jesus Christ.”

And when it came to the testimony of being “caught up to the third heaven” (2 Cor. 12:2), an experience that could well make one want to vaunt himself, he suffered a “thorn in the flesh” moment (2 Cor. 12:7) where only leaning upon God’s grace and strength could see him through.

We can easily become fixated on the great stories and accomplishments of others, and we tend to view their experiences through rose-colored glasses. Yet, what the apostle Paul’s experience teaches us, along with many others, is that they are still just humans like us. Although their stories may astound us at times (and rightfully so), for them to see the end God intended for them, they still had to rely, not on their performance or know-how, but on His grace and strength in those moments.

It is not only okay to work in the gifts, callings, and strengths God has blessed each of us with – it is expected. But know, at the end of the day, it is never about us. Even with the most promising feats of ingenuity, if God and His purposes are not at the center of our resourcefulness and strength to carry it through, then we are drawing from a well that will soon run dry.

But when we lean into Him, and recognize that His “strength is made perfect in weakness,” – even what appears to be failing can turn into a fantastic end of our story when it is God we lean upon and not ourselves or others.

Whenever you feel weak, my friend, consider this: this may be the perfect thing that God wants to use at the moment. Let your weakness rest in God’s perfect strength and do as Proverbs instructs: “Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding,” (3:5).

“Most gladly therefore will I rather glory in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me. Therefore I take pleasure in infirmities, in reproaches, in necessities, in persecutions, in distresses for Christ’s sake: for when I am weak, then am I strong.”
2 Corinthians 12:9b-10

Blessings ~

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Cultivating Slow Living

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If you have ever spent time in a garden, you know to get the most out of what you are planting, you must first spend time cultivating the soil. This involves preparing the soil to support the life of the seed or the plant. It is about nourishing and amending the soil. This ensures it will have all the healthful benefits needed to reach full maturity and fruitfulness.

Many want fruitfulness. However, the way we have been pursuing it has left many less than satisfied. They feel deflated, worn out, and frazzled because of all it takes to reach it in this world of demands.

Our modern culture allows us to do many things. This increase in perceived productivity has been helpful in some areas while taking its toll on others.

The physical, emotional, and mental burnout that people have come to equate with success has created dissatisfaction. This has awakened a not-so-silent call for a better way to live. There must be more than this constantly rushing about.

Many have become aware of the unhealthy way our over-rushed and overworked culture has pushed us forward and the term “slow living” has regained our attention. Dealing with constant busyness and hurried lifestyles has caused some to take a step back. In this, they reflect and reevaluate what is really a priority for them to have a wholesome, balanced, and healthy life. And what many are finding out is that there is a real need to put space on the calendar or the everyday routine of life to let go, and get slow.

Slow, misunderstood, and used wrongly, can be viewed as laziness. But slow can be beautiful because you are deciding to be purposeful with your life. Moving forward at a hundred miles an hour is not your goal, rather you account that people and life, in general, are made for so much more than mere zooming by without the time for deep connections. So, you take the time to love, nourish, be intentional, and simply live and enjoy all the ways God has blessed you.

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You are cultivating, on purpose, the ground of your life to support more than agendas and achievements. The abundance you are desiring cannot be confined to such trivial things. The greatest example is in our relationship with Christ.

Jesus promised us an abundant life (John 10:10). That abundance is not about forcing or focusing on things we can gain in this world or material wealth. The richest thing one can invest in to be more intentional with the life they have been given is more of Him. That cannot happen if we are always distracted by constantly doing and never taking the time to sit and be where He is (Luke 10:40-42).

He says, “Be still, and know that I am God…” (Psalm 46:10).

Cultivating slow living is not about shirking responsibilities or approaching life with a lackadaisical attitude. This is about valuing everything I have been given, especially the people in my life, and I want to care for each and honor each in a way that lets them know I esteem them, I am here for them, and I love them. I want to use this life in a way that pleases God by stewarding well what He has given me and not have my focus continually on climbing some invisible ladder of success.

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Think about what pursuit has you running about at a hurried pace today? The Bible tells us, “He that followeth after righteousness and mercy findeth life, righteousness, and honour” (Proverbs 21:21).

It is so easy to get caught up in what has been dubbed “the rat race,” but our daily living is made for more. These days, people, and moments are gifts to us by our Heavenly Father and we are encouraged about how we spend our time with each (Ephesians 5:15, 16).

“To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven”
Ecclesiastes 3:1

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Changing what we pursue and how we pursue it will make our lives a lot less stressful. Take time today to slow down, prioritize, and recenter on what matters most. There is so much more to life, and we don’t want to miss it.

So, how do we make this change?

  • Prioritize – Look where you are now and what you want your tomorrow to look like. To achieve your desired outcome, what can you let go of or shave down some so that you don’t always feel at your wit’s end. I can attest to the fact that often we take on more than we are capable of in any given season. Laying something aside right now doesn’t mean it’s not important; it just means it doesn’t fit in with the season of life I’m in right now. So we prioritize, bringing out the best without being overburdened with things that can wait.
  • Recenter – Once you have strained out the main priorities for your right-now season, you can recenter and mark your path forward. When using a GPS, sometimes I look at the overview screen of the trip to see the highways and streets we must travel ahead of us. But when I need to get back to dealing with where I am currently on my journey, I need to hit the recenter button. While it’s okay to think about the future (the Bible encourages this often), we must also pay attention to where we are in our present moment. What needs our immediate attention right now? How much strength, time, and commitment can I put into this right now? These are important questions to ask. We often get hurried and over-stressed because we want to deal with all the right-now stuff the along with the what-ifs of the future stacked on top of it. Most of the daily things we deal with can be broken down into more manageable tasks and delegated to other times. It doesn’t have to be all or nothing (an attitude that overworks us).
  • Go slow – take a deep breath and move forward at a manageable pace. There have been times I have prayed and asked God to help me steward this day or for the best way to handle the tasks in front of me. He, who is the “Ancient of Days” (Daniel 7:9), has the wisdom and strength your day needs. Trust Him with your schedule. We are given gifts to be productive, but remember, God, who is the Author of those gifts, is also the Author of rest (Genesis 2:2,3). Not just with the Sabbath, but throughout Scripture, His call to rest is a call to trust in what He is doing in your life during this season. We become filled with ideas and inspirations and want to put the pedal to the metal and give it our all. And that’s fine. But if you are feeling burned out and extremely overwhelmed, you have to question is this what God has for me in this season, or is it me rushing ahead? And if we feel it is the Lord’s leading, perhaps we need to revisit steps 1 and 2 to be sure we have shaved unnecessary things away for now.
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Don’t be disheartened. Schedules often need to be revisited to see if everything we have going on right now is for our optimal good. Recently, I have personally had to revisit how I approach certain tasks, and it is helping me see that although I love my routines, some routines or expectations may not work for certain periods of life. We must be willing to move and adjust when feeling led or if we feel like this particular thing isn’t working for now, and trust God with the outcome.

We want to cultivate a life where we are productive under God’s grace without completely feeling exhausted and stressed as if we are being buried under the burden of each day’s demands. Sometimes, slowing down will help us to do just that. Enjoy this life God has given.

Blessings ~

Wisdom’s Ways | Words to Live By

They say 10,000 steps a day helps to promote a healthier you. How healthier would our inner man be if our daily steps, our daily living, were marked by wisdom’s ways?

“My child, listen to me and do as I say, and you will have a long, good life. 𝐈 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐭𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐡 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐰𝐢𝐬𝐝𝐨𝐦’𝐬 𝐰𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐝 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐢𝐧 𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐚𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭 𝐩𝐚𝐭𝐡𝐬. 𝐖𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐰𝐚𝐥𝐤, 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐰𝐨𝐧’𝐭 𝐛𝐞 𝐡𝐞𝐥𝐝 𝐛𝐚𝐜𝐤; 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐫𝐮𝐧, 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐰𝐨𝐧’𝐭 𝐬𝐭𝐮𝐦𝐛𝐥𝐞.” Proverbs 4:10-12, NLT